Divorce mediation helps opposing parties reach a quiet, efficient, and amicable resolution to their case rather than deal with the unfortunate consequences of courtroom litigation. For the most part, those who choose mediation will do all they can to reach an outcome that works for everyone — even with property division and child-related matters (child support, custody, and visitation). But what happens if emotions run high and the temperature in the room rises? How can you quickly resolve conflict?
As a neutral third party, the mediator’s job is to help keep the peace. But they cannot do it alone. Your role as one of the parties in the case is to be a willing participant, keep your emotions in check, and defuse the other party’s emotions when necessary.
Effective communication is critical to resolving conflicts and building stronger relationships.
5 Divorce Mediation Strategies To Resolve Conflict
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Listen actively
Give the other person your full attention. Listening without interrupting shows respect and helps you understand the root cause of potential disagreements that might derail the divorce mediation process.
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Stay calm
While you cannot wholly control someone else’s emotions and reactions, you can and should keep your emotions in check. Responding calmly can prevent escalating situations and open the door to a more meaningful conversation.
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Seek common ground
Focus on what you agree on, even if there are other elements you struggle to see eye-to-eye on. Finding shared values or goals can serve as a foundation to work on and resolve much larger conflicts.
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Agree to disagree
Sometimes, agreeing to disagree respectfully can be the best resolution. Acknowledge the differences you and your soon-to-be former spouse have between each other, and find a way to move forward with grace and respect.
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Trust the process
Mediation has a structure and dynamics that ordinary negotiation methods lack, and you should trust that process. The process is confidential, meaning the mediator cannot be compelled to testify at trial about anything said or any offers made during the process. They also cannot represent either party, set terms, or decide the outcome of a case. A mediator can be a lawyer — which is often the best scenario and is preferred by many parties who desire that extra level of expertise.
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